Jacob has always been a private person. His words are his power source. You have to read between the lines or guess the right answer and read it on his face. It's been difficult to see him compress so many emotions, frustrations, misunderstandings, and stresses. So we have found a counselor to work/play some of these things through.
Liz is a therapist at LDS Family Services. I liked her instantly and Jacob has warmed up to her very well. On their first meeting they played Jenga (a new favorite). There are no needles or exam gloves - usually a scented candle burning; a cozy couch and chair; her desk, files drawers, & computer; & games.
Another appointment each week. How did we explain that to Jake? Well, sometimes when something very hard or scary happens in life - something big - like cancer, a counselor is someone who helps you feel happy even when it's hard. Jacob was excited to go to his appointment today.
They compiled a list together (that Jacob said I could share):
THE HARD THINGS JACOB HAS HAD TO DO BECAUSE OF CANCER
1. Port access
2. Surgery
3. Tape
4. Needle
5. Chemo makes me sick
6. Can't play in sand
7. Couldn't play in water for the first half
8. Couldn't ride bike
GOOD THINGS ABOUT CANCER TREATMENT
1. They treat me with good treatment (they are nice)
2. Already half way done with the treatment
3. No more cancer
4. Health
I am very proud of Jacob. He is trying to keep a positive attitude and move forward bravely. My sweet, brave boy.
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Hooray for therapy! Sometimes an appointment with a NON doctor is just what the patient ordered. I'll always cherish the relationships we built with Dallin's physical therapist, speech therapist and nutritionist. These women were in our home weekly and became such a huge part of our family. Really, there is so much more to treat than the physical body. So glad you have Liz...
Half way done! Way to go! Our prayers are flying in your direction EVERY day, Jacob. For you and your family. We love you!
I am so glad he has you for a mom and that you have found therapy for him. I plan on seeing you and Jacob in December for cub scouts. I hope the Pack Meeting went well....
More appointments for you. I am glad that you are half way done with the chemo. You are all in our prayers. I hope that the therapy helps Jacob fin his "happy spot" within him.
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